Many women thought they could put off marriage and families until their 30s, having devoted their 20s to education, establishing careers and playing the field. But was their decade of dating a strategic mistake?
Thanks to listener Gary Baker.
Why women lose the dating game
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Cry me a river bitches. When I was in my 20s, as you were blowing me off left and right, I was working on becoming successful, getting educated, advancing in my career and all. And now you want me to commit? Why on Earth would I invest in a depreciating asset like you?
Athirson, I feel you pain. I’m 47 now but back in the when I turned 30, women in their late 20’s were interested in me for the first time. When at my age were also interested in me but pushed them aside (sucks to be them). Teaches them a f&^%ing lesson. Almost of them had to lower their standards BIG TIME!!!!!
at 10 mostly women are raised like the little princess who will conquer their dreams!
at 20 women are riding the cock carousel looking for their bad Gina-tingler boy
at 30 women things is all about me, myself and i, carreer, because im worth it! i’ve a VAGINA!
at 35 single women looks at the little lines on their faces and reads: Best before end: 36 y.o.
at 36 single women are in seek’n’pregnant me mode! watch outta there! take cover!
at 38 single women/divorced/single mothers are all in the same places, mostrly with also a pet
at 40 women out of the market become cougars, desperate bitches, carrer minded whore
at 45 few women are really happy wives and mothers…if they found a loser in their 25/35 of course
at 50 single women are carreer zombies who still believe to teach men how to abide with women and social rules of conduct! fuck yeah! they even pretend to bitch on my videogames…
well, let me say something to you:
Game over bitches! better luck next time! please insert more penis!
Damien, I like what you have at age 36. I know of someone that wanted a baby so bad (and by that time could find any) had a baby by tricking the guy she was sleeping with. She had a half a dozen guys after her (including me by the way) when she was 25/26. She gave us all the cold shoulder.
Consider a Presidential Address from our fearless leader, President Barack Obama…My fellow Americans, I come to you today to discuss a serious problem that we here have in these United States of America, our epidemic of single moms. As many of you know, I was born of a single mom, my father siring children with several different women. So I have a bit of skin in the game on this one, so to speak. So what I have to say now will make sense from an economics stand-point.Gentlemen, you have to marry the sluts. You have to. For the good of the country. You must. Please turn in your bachelorhood, marry a single mom of your (or the government’s) choosing, raise and financially support all her children that she bred with how many different men she let cum inside her, and willfully become her cuckhold. Do this for the country. You must. You must do this because you are going to support them anyway with your tax dollars since these women will be getting public housing, welfare assistance, healthcare assistance, and tuition dollars to educate all their children at public university. You are paying for them and all their bastard children whether you like it or not.My way, you at least get to f-ck the women you are paying for. So there is some good there. And so you will no longer have to live a bachelor’s life of disgruntled, bitter, masturbation to p(ro)n, you can get laid. Routinely. Provided she doesn’t instantly change her mind about having sex with you and call the cops and have you thrown out of the house that you paid for or the apartment that the government paid for. In such case, obviously, you would still be required to pay for all the children that she had with other men that you will never meet.I am therefore recommending to Congress that they craft a Bill that I will sign. Call it the Finance Undeserving C-nts viaKnighthood You Otherwise Useless male Act. Part of this Bill would be to “conscript” all unmarried, hardworking, Beta males, whether they are MGTOW or not, into a marriage of the government’s chosing if you can’t hurry up and man up and marry a slut. Gentlemen, you have a small window before the F-V-C-K YOU Act mandate goes into effect. In which case, we’ll set up a website and we’ll pair you up with a slut.Thank you. God Bless you. And God Bless America
You forgot to mention that if we don’t marry one of these sluts, the government will round us up and place in the near FEMA camp.
This blog made me think of my early 20’s, as I was rejected by the foxes who chased after the Alfa males and showed no more interest in me than glancing at a blade of grass next to the highway traveling at 75 MPH. And this made me think about my own personal experiences with tall women, a slightly different story from this blog, but same result due to being a Beta male. One 6’ tall girl, in a gym, talked to me with such a look of disinterested she couldn’t have looked or acted more uninterested if she had wanted to. I approached another, who I estimated being 5 foot 9 or 10 inches. She got angry with me for even asking her out and stuck her finger in my face informing me she didn’t date shorter men. On line, I met a girl 5’11”, and we worked out together once in my apartment complex gym, after that she did not return my two phone calls, there could be others, too, I just don’t remember them all. Now, you may say the rejections were because of my looks, that could be true, but as I approached girls closer to my height, my success rate went way up.
This blog also made me think about the rejections by tall girls, and it angered me, but not at the time the rejection. Only years later, when I actually tallied them up, did I get angry. I was rejected not because I was fat, bald, ugly, deformed or had a rotten personality. No. The reason I was rejected by all of these women was my height. Not a one even bothered to put forth the effort to get to know me much less date me.
I did date three women who were significantly taller than me, two at 5’11” and one at 5’10”. (I am 5’8”) And all three happened to be 32 years of age, which is more than a coincidence and a tie in with this blog. No doubt all three wanted a tall Alfa male, and lost, so a safe stable Beta male was the next best thing in their 30’s, for I certainly didn’t grow any taller and I doubt I got better looking. These women were past their prime and worried. I was in my late 30’s, at this time of my life, after being married for 10 years. It was also at this time, I could easily date younger women, and I did. When I was 38, my first girlfriend was 27, the next was 27 and the next was 24 who became my second wife. I never dated with any intent of marrying a woman my age. Younger women had no issue with me dating them, and I certainly had no issue dating them. I remember going to singles events and seeing very pretty women, who were my age, who I know 15 years earlier would not have given me the time of day. And even now, they may have looked better than myself, but now it was me who had no interest in approaching them. I did not want to take time and money away from pursuing younger women. Why go old, when I could go young? I was amazed how the dating game changed in my favor. And I used it to my advantage, just as women had done years earlier.
I am now married and have 4 sons. I have 3 degrees, and I have co-authored 2 US patents. I have made over 6 figures for 10 plus years. I could have provided a good life to any girl. I wanted a taller girl because of the physical turn on and to for fill one of my desires, yet not one single tall girl (in her 20’s) gave me a chance. I was turned down consistently and without a second thought. (Maybe due to the Alfa male fascination) So, if you find yourself in your late 20’s or early 30’s with no prospect of a husband or children in the immediate future, you have no one to blame but yourself. There were men like me, who wanted a leggy female, but they, like me, were never accorded the opportunity. (This also applies to average height women, too) And the reality is that the vast majority of tall women will not even consider a shorter man (and Beta males) until it is too late. You would think it would be obvious that if you included shorter males (and Beta males) in your suitor selection, your odds would increase of finding a mate. There are a lot more short and medium height males than there are taller ones. So my advice would be to accept the advances of all men and get to know them. I, who would have relished the opportunity of having curvy broad hips and a tapered waist to hold all night and to make love to into the early hours of the morning, was never, not once, even given a chance to start a relationship. Throw away the yardstick, for you may find someone like me, who would love to share his life and love with a tall girl.
By the way, another tie in with this article and be found at this web site.
http://shortguycentral.com/P-57/beware-of-the-reformed-heightist-woman
This writer tell about his rejections in his 20’s by women only to find that women now chased after him, in spite of his height, now he is in his early 30’s. He warns of the dangers of the “Reformed Heightest Woman” who are desperate after wasting their life chasing the Alfa male and now want a stable Beta with a steady pay-check.